One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.That’s just the reality.”To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.
The Black man is alone, doesn't want to be alone, and "settles" for what he can have.Women of contact black women online often exoticize them.Women who do go on dates with those men sometimes find out that they’re more interested in dating a skin color or a stereotype than getting to know them as a person.Sometimes when i see a black guy with one of these fat ugly female bob's big boys i wonder to myself why? I get mistaken from a sister from the back all the time. My black girlfriends tell me to go to their shop to buy jeans and I told them they would not probably accept me in there. So stop hating on the black woman because you can't have us. If you do have a girl, she's probably cheating on you with someone who looks better and has more money than your broke ass. I actually have many of those "fat ugly white women" and their black male partners TELL me why they are together. "Easy sex one night, then she got pregnant." "No one wants her but me." "I met him and he was nice to me." "No black women around here."That last sentence was from a guy who had to move to my community for work, his first solid job in a year after being laid off from a plant. The guy seemed to be saying to me that he was lonely, wanted someone at home to cook and clean, and didn't have the self-confidence to approach "good looking" white women in the area because he was afraid he'd be attacked by the white guys in town.Not exactly untrue, considering that the white guys around here hate black men with white women, but then again, they don't hate it so much when the white women is someone those idoit white boys would never even buy a cup of coffee.