Here is some of my single mom advice: Dating a single mom is just like dating a woman without kids, or at least that’s how we want you to treat it.
For a mom to be thrusted back into the dating world is nothing short of traumatic.
but dating when you have FOUR kids is like the Mt Everest of the dating world!
If you are a mother and you are collecting child support, you are not a single mother. The rest of us who have to LIVE with your fucked up, emotionally scarred children will PAY you to have a fucking abortion. Second, single mothers are clearly really, really shitty at making life decisions. You both put each other’s happiness above your own. Now divorced mothers, who are a breed of single mothers, MIGHT be a little different, but whenever you approach one, sing this little song in your head: it takes two to tango. Even if it’s TRUE that the husband was a colossal fuck-up, you need to ask yourself what kind of imperceptive moron couldn’t spot that?We want to go out to a nice restaurant, see a movie above a PG rating, wear nice clothes without spit up or boogers on it. We want to have a conversation that doesn’t revolve around play dates, potty training and playgrounds.A mom is the most selfless person you will ever meet.I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one.